our lives isn’t in the cards. We are friends and try to work together, but our relationship isn’t permanant by any means. We have no doubt that our friendship will last though. Perhaps our relationship isn’t suited to this kind of program. Keeping that in mind, if it works better for the program, would it be easier to think of me as single but with a housemate? It seems most of the issues the group is confused about has to do with my marital status, not my money.